There is a lot on this blog to go through and I invite you to look through our story if you are thinking of possibly matching with us for Surrogacy. But with over a decade of posts here, I thought I’d take a bit of time to help highlight some of our key moments. I will be including links to some related blog posts here, and the first thing I will comment on is the fact that my husband changed his name legally this past summer after assuming the name Malcolm in 2018. So in older posts you will see him identified as David, and in posts after 2018 as Malcolm.
Malcolm and I met doing Sci-Fi Speed Dating on August 23rd of 2012 at Fan Expo in Toronto. We connected immediately and left the event together, then I got nervous and disappeared into the crowd. The next day we got our emails that we officially matched and we set up a half hour visit in the games room to see if the connection was real. Two and a half hours later, we realized the time and decided to regroup with the people we had gone to the con with. We met up for dinner at a restaurant outside the convention centre and then we spent the rest of the weekend going to the same panels and Q&A sessions. We exchanged emails, phone numbers, and friended each other on facebook. We texted, chatted, and Skyped pretty much every day, Malcolm was living in Ottawa and I was west of Toronto. The next time we saw each other in person was October 5th when Malcolm came to visit for Thanksgiving weekend and met my whole family. That weekend we officially became boyfriend and girlfriend. Fun fact: Malcolm said “I love you” first!
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